Last Friday as one of my students was leaving yoga practice,
she commented on how much better her back felt and that it had been only about
a week since she could barely move due to an minor injury from overexertion in
the garden. She mentioned how we often
don’t appreciate being able to move around without feeling pain. The same could be said for days when we don't feel sick and a host of other situations that we constantly take for granted. This is one aspect of perspective, feeling gratitude
for what you have instead of unsatisfied or grasping for more and then feeling
anxious about not being able to afford it or disappointed about not getting it
immediately.
All the advertising and other hype we are exposed to daily preys not only on our insecurities but also on this yearning for more fueled
by a shortage of perspective as neighbors and friends try to outdo each
other with personal possessions and special experiences.
A book I just finished again brought this home to me. It was a study of the changes in the standard
of living in the US over the past 150 years.
The book, The Rise and Fall of
American Growth, showed graphically that the advances in technology that
led to an improved standard of living for everyone came at a rate unheard of
prior to 1870, but still not at a steady pace.
Most of the life changing inventions came about in the first half of the
20th century, despite the Great Depression and two world wars. Advances leading to real improvement in how
we live have been scarce since 1970 with the exception of a one-time surge in
information technology in the 1990s.
The details are not important. What this 660 pages of fairly dry reading brought
home to me was an appreciation for what we have today, conveniences that were
unavailable to those living just a few generations ago.
Begin with not waking up with dead horses in the
street. Before automobiles, the stench
of horse manure, urine and carcasses in the streets of most major cities was
constant. They had no sewer system to
deal with that and all the other waste.
There was no electricity and conveniences like indoor plumbing and
central heating were rare. Work was hard
and dangerous. Life expectancy was low
and those who lived beyond a “retirement age” continued to work, often losing
their regular job because they were no longer physically able.
People in rural areas had other problems. Farm work, which employed over 45% of the
working population, was very dangerous, with working conditions as unpleasant
as nature could make them. In addition, they were isolated for long periods with no phone and no radio. If they needed a doctor or supplies, they
rode to town, and arriving there, were at the mercy of the single retail outlet
with no way to tell how fair a deal they were getting. (Competition was limited or non-existent
until Sears and Montgomery Ward began to send catalogs.)
Since then our houses have been networked with electricity
and water supply (including sewage) along with all the appliances that they
enabled: telephones, radios and
televisions, washers and dryers, stoves, refrigerators, microwaves,
dishwashers, central heating and air conditioning. No more walking to the pump to fill a bucket
and haul it in to scrub the laundry or wash the dishes or take an infrequent
bath. No more eating only what is in
season and worrying about spoilage. No
more freezing in the morning waiting for the stove to heat up, where the first
one up had to haul in the wood or coal to start the fire.
Cars and trucks, along with the roads themselves slowly
improved to the point where a daylong trip in the past became an easy drive
today. And travel by car has also become
progressively safer – and would be safer still, if drivers could put the phone
down.
There are so many other advances and inventions that we take
for granted. Progress in fighting communicable
diseases like polio and diphtheria has been enormous. Medicine offers treatment and cures unheard
of even a couple of decades ago.
In the first ten minutes of the day we enjoy so many of
these conveniences from the time we curse the alarm, turn on the light switch
and stumble into the shower. Then we get
to the drive thru in our heated or air-conditioned cars to pick up a coffee on
the way to work in a temperature controlled office, where we can stand around
and complain about the most trivial discomforts or inconveniences.
Things can always be better and there is no need to become
static with appreciation, but it doesn’t hurt to reflect on what we have, even if
only as a barometer to gauge how inconsequential some of our daily problems really
are. That’s how perspective helps keep
our lives in balance.
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