Only a few months ago everyone, regardless of political
views, seemed to be saying, “I can’t wait for this campaign to be over.” Everyone, except for those few who really
relished a good fight, was apparently thinking the same thing, that the
presidential campaign was the nastiest, most tiring and most divisive in
memory. The general sentiment was how
nice it would be to get back to a calmer time when most of the news was not
about accusations tossed back and forth by the candidates, about fist fights
breaking out after political rallies, about protests against the appearance of one
of the candidates at a sight, or about leaks revealing each of the candidates prior
criminal history.
For a long time people were encouraged to go out of their
way not to bring up politics at family gatherings or social events for fear of
causing major fallout. Comments and
posts on social media were as aggressive and mean as the daily sniping between
the parties or the news media’s attempts to dig up the dirt. Instead of calmly discussing points of
disagreement, so-called friends called each other vile names when they found
themselves at odds over which candidate was best – or at least, the lesser
evil. All that emotion and anger were
exhausting, even to those on the sidelines, not directly participating. We just hoped Election Day would arrive soon
and it would all be over.
Now that the election has come and gone, it’s not over. The sniping, bashing and name calling
continue, not between the candidates anymore, but between their advocates and a
still divided population, led by a mainstream media which, despite an attempt
to appear non-partisan, can’t seem to hide the fact that they obviously felt
the wrong candidate won. On social media
you see that one side has gotten out their crystal balls to determine what a
disaster the next four years is going to be.
They are angry and worried sick. For
a while they called for recounts or a rebellion within the Electoral College in
a futile attempt to overturn the election results.
The other side, again with crystal balls in hand, predicts
that we are better off, and each attempt to smear the President-elect or
question the outcome is met with sneers and equally nasty comments.
The truth is that no one has a crystal ball. No one can predict the future with any
accuracy. If that were the case, we would
all be rich and not so worried about it.
We just have to take what comes and hope for the best. I wrote on the day before the election that
most people were voting against rather than for a candidate, and that the poor
choices we were left with was our own fault for not demanding better from the
parties and from government in general.
Perhaps those who were griping about gridlock for the last four years
will be praying for it over the next four.
This is not the answer. The real
solution is to use critical thinking to continuously question politicians, the
media and advertisers, not reacting to the hype and forcing them to be honest.
In any case, this is not the season for anger and hate. It’s the season for peace and joy and
goodwill. Let’s try to leave the
politics behind just for a little while.
So over the next couple of days, no matter who you are spending time with
and no matter how obnoxious Uncle So-and-so gets, try to ignore the
provocation. Take a deep breath and
count to ten. It doesn’t matter what
your religious affiliation is or what this end of the year means to you
personally, try to find and share some of that peace, joy and goodwill – even
if you have to fake it.
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