Last time I wrote about perspective with an emphasis on
gratitude. Another aspect of perspective
is living according to core values.
Living according to your values means that what you profess to believe
or hold as important is reflected in your words and actions.
We often see contradictions to perspective in what we line
up for. It is not unusual for a television
reporter to ask, “How long have you been standing in line?” or “What have you
been doing while waiting?” The typical
scene is a long line at a store or entertainment venue waiting for the opening
or the opportunity to buy tickets.
Publishers often release new books at midnight
expecting lines, as was the case when lines of children formed for Harry Potter
books. Sometimes the first in line are in
tents, having camped out overnight. Virtual lines form in Internet waiting rooms for tickets to
sporting events and concerts. Some sell
out in minutes.
Yet when voter turnout is below 50%, the politicians argue
that Election Day should be made a holiday because people are too busy to make
it to the polls. It’s a big
inconvenience. How many parents would
wait in long lines to talk to their child’s teacher at the regular
conference? When the Pope visits, it’s a
big deal in the US as in other
countries, but I’ve never seen a line outside a church to get into mass, where
Catholics say they believe God is present.
But what about smartphones? ABC reported recently, “Despite [the fact
that the company said it had already sold all available iPhone 7 Plus models
through pre-orders], lines had still formed at Apple's retail locations across
the country hours and -- in some cases -- days ahead of the phone's release.”
Some lined up because they wanted one for themselves. Others admitted to being scalpers, expecting
to cash in on the demand by selling the phone at a marked up price.
I commented back in February 2013 about observing over a dozen
eager customers lined up at the mall waiting for a shoe store to open. The first in line sat in a folding canvas
camping chair playing on his phone. When I looked it up later I found
this line signaled the return of the Nike White/Infrared Air Jordan 6, listed
at $170 a pair. I was grateful that the
competition wasn’t as vicious as it was in other places, for example, Madison,
WI last March where police had to be called to breakup fights. (For many more examples and pictures, Google:
waiting-shopping-fight, or anything like that.
It’s definitely not limited to basketball shoes.)
Perspective is not, “It’s OK to hurt other people as long as I get my bargain.”
Perspective also is not, “I worked hard to get into a good university and that gives me the right
to be offended by the least little thing – and the college administration must
object to anything that makes me unhappy or uncomfortable and require everyone
else to change their behavior to suit me.”
From Fox News: “A
University of Wisconsin-La Crosse student had a serious complaint for his
campus’ official ‘Hate Response Team’: he was ‘very upset’ by a Harry Potter
mural in a college dorm.” The mural
represents a character from the movies changing from nerdy-looking to mature-looking
as a result of college experiences. The
objection was that it represented white power, man power, cis power, able
power, class power. (I hope, at the risk
of offending someone, he or she didn’t accidently omit any other victim class!)
And speaking of he or she, “to help foster inclusiveness” the
University of Michigan announced that students could choose the personal
pronoun they want faculty and staff to use when talking with them. The choices are listed as: “he, she, him, his, ze, etc.” (“Ze is a gender-neutral, third-person
singular subject pronoun used in place of the masculine he or the
feminine she, according to Dictionary.com.”
– Is “it” also third-person singular gender neutral – or is it only neuter
gender?) When I talk to someone, I
usually say “you.” If they are not there,
and I refer to them how can they be offended?
But to be on the safe side professors must comply.
The “etc.” implies more options. I wonder if they are allowed to make up their
own. If I were a U of M student, my
personal pronoun would be “Wolfman”!
But seriously, maybe these students should look around and
see how lucky they are to be given the chance to get a great education in a
great country. They weren’t born in a
country at war or where the vast majority otherwise fight for survival
everyday. Maybe they should get a hobby
other than being offended. Maybe they
should be preparing for the real world where everyone is not required to walk
on eggshells for fear of offending – although the “real world” also seems to be
moving in that direction. Maybe they
need some perspective, and the rest of us, starting with college
administration, need to start leading by example.
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